The Modern Man’s Guide to: Hookups
Hooking up is something that appeals to many of us. After all, it’s why seeing a London escort can be so appealing: a bit of company without all the effort and the stress. It’s not that you necessarily can’t be bothered or don’t have the time, it’s more that the entire normal dating process can be deeply irritating. Having to find a girl, flirt, talk and then hope things keep progressing. You both know what you want, you both know how to get there. So why the games? Neither of you are children anymore, or lovesick teenagers. Leave that sort of half hinted at crap for the younger ones.
So you turn to a hookup instead. You say what you want, she says what she wants, you see if it works for both of you. If it does, then excellent. If not, then you move onto the next potential candidate, no harm done. It’s easy and simple. And yet, things never are. Our tendency to over complicate even the most gentle of life’s activities once again rears its ugly head and we find ourselves wondering why on earth we’re even doing this, what the point is. Suddenly she wants things she hasn’t been saying, you were meant to pick up on them. And then you’re back to square one and wishing for a London escort again.
Our advice therefore, is to keep hookups short and sweet. A few times, and then move on. Or at least keep it pretty infrequent. Otherwise things just get messy. With that in mind, here are our top tips for making sure your hookup goes to plan:
– Be safe. This might sound idiotic or obvious, but you would be surprised… In every way possible, please be safe. Don’t meet people in random places late at night on your own. Meet i public first. Make sure you are protected. Failure to prepare is preparing to fail as they say and in this case it really is true.
– If you’re using an online site, beware of anyone that refers you to a 3rd party app, program or website to talk or verify. It’s a scam, an attempt to get money or give your PC a virus. Trust us, no matter how real they seem, they never ever are. Avoid like the plague.
– Be considerate. You’re not in a relationship, there might well not be a “next time”. Make sure all of her needs are met before you finish, that is a key thing to remember here. These girls aren’t trained London escorts, they’re just women like you, looking for some fun, like you. Respect that and their right to enjoy themselves.
– Choose someone that really appeals to you. We do mean that too. You might think it’s going to incredible with anyone, but when reality hits you don’t want
– Enjoy it. The whole idea is that it is meant to be good fun. So make sure that you are definitely having fun at the same time!