The Real Men’s Guide to: Giving a good massage

The art of massage is one that most men will be familiar with by now. After all, we all have stressful lives living in this city. We all wish that we could escape it all sometimes and actually feel relaxed. That’s the dream, and you can easily see why men spend so much time and money trying to get the right level of service from the women that massage them. What we have to ask though, is why they don’t just go straight to the reliable massage services being offered instead of risking the personals and online ads.

 

Perhaps because they’re looking for a more personal touch. Sometimes, a great massage isn’t just about technique and form, it’s about feeling a connection with the other person. Which is why so many women prefer to receive massages from a partner. Today we’ll be talking about that side of the equation, not the male one. Instead we’re going to look at what you should be doing when you GIVE massages, not when you want to receive them. For some men this might be a scary inversion, but that’s all part of the fun.

 

So, first things first, you need to remember that this is not about being as good as a masseuse. Realistically, that is never going to happen, you don’t have the skills, the training or the practice. You just need to accept that your massage is likely never going to quite hit the same level. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that, but it’s an important thing to consider. Take that mental pressure off of yourself and just enjoy it. Give her the relaxation she wants and take the tension from your own shoulders.

 

Second, use some form of massage bar or aid. Your hands can be a powerful, intriguing tool but varying texture is a very good way to set yourself apart. You likely lack the strength and dexterity most professional massagers will have in their hands so rather than offering an inferior version of something that already exists, try and make yourself different. Made from delicate and fragrant massage oils, a bar is often bumped or ridged to provide an interesting textural contrast to the person you’re giving it to. This can make a big difference and can be what seperates a decent massage from a truly memorable one. And if you’re going to all this effort, you want it to be memorable!

 

Third, don’t forget to listen to their body. It should be pretty simple to tell if they want you to add more or less pressure. See if they shy their shoulders away from you when you’re pressing in, or if they seem to push them back into your hands. Picking up on these subtle signals is honestly a key aspect of getting women to really enjoy what you’re offering to them. After all, the whole point is that you’re taking the time to really give her the attention that she wants, so do it properly. Let her really enjoy herself in a manner that no other man could match, and you’ll soon see the results.

 

Finally, just enjoy it. It’s meant to be fun. You’ve got a (hopefully) beautiful woman’s bare skin in front of you. Enjoy the rush and make it a night to remember. Don’t let anxiety stop you from having the time of your life. This is likely going to be a night you savour and remember for quite some time!

 

That’s all from us today. Check back in tomorrow and every day for more real tips for men about the world around us, love and lust.


June 30, 2018

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